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# 1 Reason to Invest in Your Child’s Education

Today, my oldest child turned 11, and I was overcome with joy and most of all, awareness of my present circumstances. I am turning 35 this year, 24 years older than my oldest daughter, which would make me 74 years old when she turns 50 years old. I realize that at this point, my children will be making some important decisions, most importantly, what to do what dear old dad.

I hopped on the internet, to do some research, understanding that my days as a care taker are slowly slipping through the hour glass, and that my time as one being taken care of are slowly creeping up on me. There is a new nursing home around the corner from our house, and it is reasonably priced at $2,000 a month, which equals $24,000 a year!!!!.

Now, I am not complaining about the cost of nursing homes, because I believe that I am worth more than a measly $24,000 a year, after all I have done for my kids and will do for my kids!!!!! I am not writing this to talk about the cost of senior care facilities, but to make mention of the types of resources necessary to live in them. So, to address today’s topic of why we should invest in our children education, I say to you with the biggest Kool-Aid grin on my face “You must invest in your childrens education because it will determine what type of nursing home you will live in!!!!!!! :)”

Follow up:

Here are some stats that I found:

“Adults ages 25 to 65 who worked at any point throughout duration of the study period received average annual earnings of $35,000. Average earnings varied in amount by level of education; $18,900 for high school dropouts, $25,900 for high school graduates, $45,400 for college graduates, and $99,300 for persons possessing a professional degree (J.D, M.D., D.V.M., or D.D.S). Evidence suggests that each consecutive higher education level a person receives is directly related to increase in earnings.”

The nursing home I mentioned around the corner from our house is on the upscale line of nursing homes, and if you want to live nice when you are up in age, your children will have resources of their own, be capable of helping you manage your resources, and be financially stable enough to keep their hands out of your retirement money:)!

Having said all of that, with a smile of course, doesn’t it make since to invest in your children’s education? Don’t you want to them to excel far beyond you? Don’t you want them to have a better chance of earning a wage, which selfishly, that positions you to live in awesome accommodations in your old age?

I wrote this blog to be silly, but also to address a reality. The investment made now in our children will reap dividends far beyond the return of any stock or bond. It could be the difference between paying off a school loan when they are 55 years old, or starting a business with the money they saved because they were a presidential scholar. Your investment could be the difference between you raising your grandchildren because mom and dad can’t afford it, and you visiting your grandchildren and leaving empty handed. It could be the difference between renting and owning, ownership or employee, manager or sacker. My friends, the investment is worth it. Let’s pour into our kids by re-shifting our investment in them to things that will (selfishly) benefit them and us in the long run, because I am not staying in any run down, under staffed, un-safe, in active, nursing home!!!

Happy Birthday LLO!!!

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Comments:

Comment from: amanda [Member]

05/19/09 @ 14:15

I don't think it's silly at all. I grew up in an abusive environment, with parents, a father in particular, who believed the only duty he had to me was to tell me what to do and when. Whatever happened to me after the point he ceased being able to control me was ALL my problem. When I left home at 16 to get away from the negativity, this only gave my father additional justification to wash his hands of obligation to me that required work on his part.
Now my parents have come back to my as adults, seeking relationship, support in their physical ailments. I give it to them as best I can all things considered, but the truth of the matter is that as a result of the lack of resources and training I had as a child I don't have any time left to worry about their well being. I am, literally, trying to find my next meal. My grandfather recently died and I looked pretty bad to my family because I didn't come back for the funeral, though they knew I had no money (I live half way across the country from them).
My mother expressed concern about whether I would care enough to go back for her funeral when she died. Of course I said I would but the reality is that I seriously doubt my finanical situation will be any better then than it is now. Of course I will do what I can to be there for her, but I know that I will not able to do much.
I don't think parents think far enough ahead when they put limitations or stipulations on their children. There is nothing silly to me about saying that if you don't take care of me when I can't take care of myself and invest in getting me the tools to succeed on my own, I am going to have to take the time as an adult making up for the time I lost as a child, learning, and persuing opportunites i should have had then, and I am not going to have time for you. Maybe it is a cold thing to say, but unfortunately it is true.

Comment from: john brightman [Visitor] · http://www.whoismark.com

05/25/09 @ 09:32

HI
looks very interesting!
bookmarked your blog.
john brightman

Comment from: houstonianforever [Member]

05/25/09 @ 10:52

This is an interesting blog. The roles will truly be reversed one day. Though it sounds selfish, both of you have a point. I hope that I can position myself to give my son all he needs to survive and prosper. Not just for my sake, but for his sake. Amanda, my heart was heavy after reading your comments. I was blessed with two parents that were always there for me, and were not abusive, but they still were a bit selfish in the way they spent their money. Because of that, I feel that I can relate to you. Life has gotten better over the years, praise God, but all in all, I am determined to give my son a bigger boost than I had. Stay encouraged Amanda, when the time comes, you will be in a better position. Keep the faith.

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Johnny grew up in Houston and there after receiving his graduate degree. He has spent time working with and serving families and children for over nine years, as a mentor, family therapist, and substitute teacher. Johnny earned a B.S. in Political Science and Master of Divinity at Samuel D. Proctor School of Theology. He has spent most of his time working in the community as a role model and mentor and has worked as the Pastor of Community Life for over five years. Currently working as Teen Pastor there, Johnny has a heart for children and enjoys seeing them excel and reach their full potential.

Quinita attended Virginia Union University under a Presidential Scholar Award and obtained a B.A. in Psychology and Master of Divinity from the Samuel D. Proctor School of Theology. She has recently completed work on her second Masters degree from University of Houston in Educational Psychology, and is now enrolled at Texas A & M in pursuit of her Doctorate. Quinita hails from a family of educators who have served the public for over 30 years. Quinita has worked in the field of education for over eight years, as an Assistant Director of Preschool and Christian Academy; teacher at a NAEYC accredited school, tutor, and nanny. She is a life-long learner, who is interested in seeing children enjoy excelling academically while pursing scholarly endeavors. She is passionate about equipping children with educational skills that will transform their lives and prepare them for a rewarding career. Her job requires her to develop and implement an after-school program and supervise a staff and deal directly with parents and student of all ages.