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Social Promotion vs Grade Retention Neither Is the Answer

Apr 28 | Social Promotion vs Grade Retention Neither Is the Answer

As the school year comes to a close, many parents are faced with the realization that their child has not mastered this year's educational skills and goals. Some are faced with the option of either socially promoting the child despite the fact that they have not learned the needed material to be successful in the coming year or grade retention and having the child repeat this school year.

Follow up:

Neither of these options alone will solve the child's educational problems. "While conventional wisdom would lead many to believe that students have a better chance of mastering material by going through a year’s worth of schooling a second time, many educators and organizations – including the national Association of School Psychologists – argue that many of these students develop social and behavioral problems that inhibit their long-term academic achievement."

There are several signs a child will exhibit that may help the parent decide if tutoring is a way to help a child gain educational skills and become successful life-long learners.
1. During parent-teacher conferences, a teacher may mention that the child is lagging behind and will recommend additional tutoring help.
2. Your child has lost their natural love of learning.
3. No matter how hard your child studies and tries to succeed in school the child's grades continue to fall.
4. The teacher reports to the parent that there are behavioral problems in the classroom.
5. Homework is not completed, not handed in on time or is inaccurate.
6. The child's self-esteem is being affected and the parent hears the child say things like: "I'm just stupid." "I can't learn." "I quit."
7. Your child doesn't want to go to school.
8. Your child experiences test anxiety.

All to often parents feel that if their child is not a success then it is a reflection on their parenting skills. So often, when the child is feeling like a failure, the parent is feeling like a failure, too. The fact is neither is a failure! There are any number of factors that may be affecting your child's learning. Having a tutor step in with fresh,innovative and creative ideas may be just the boost you both need in getting your child onto the path of becoming a happy, motivated, life-long learner.

A tutor can help. Creative Tutors may be the answer you are looking to find!

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Comment from:Hope [Visitor] · http://www.redplanetdesign.com
05/15/09 @ 11:37
This article was right on target as parent -teacher conferences are taking place at my children's school. The only option we had considered was to go to summer school and if he had not mastered the required skills repeat second grade.

I feel confident moving forward with him going to summer school, NOT repeating the grade, and getting him a tutor. Again, thank you for the article and I hope it gets to enough parents in time.

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Kim Ashby earned a BS in Nursing from The Catholic University of America and, when she worked outside the home, was a Certified Emergency Nurse with a special interest in trauma nursing. She lives in Raleigh, NC with her husband and three sons. The Ashbys have home schooled their children since 1999. They graduated their oldest son in May 2007. He is attending UNC Wilmington. Kim continues to home school her younger boys. Her oldest son was diagnosed with ADHD when he was in the public school system in the second grade. Her second son has cerebral palsy which has resulted in multiple/global developmental delays. Her youngest son has undiagnosed, mild auditory processing issues.

Kim has co-instructed graduate level courses at UNC Chapel Hill for ST/OT students and Early Intervention students. She is the founder and President of the Board of Directors of GIFTSNC, Inc., a home schooling special needs support group. Kim has presented workshops at a variety of state home school conferences as well as local support group parent meetings and is often a guest speaker at homeschool conferences and is found on many guest speaker lists including Balancing the Sword. She is a Steering Committee member and former Treasurer for Dayspring Home Educators in Cary, NC. She served on the Board of Directors for the Family Support Network of Wake County. She holds a North Carolina Wildlife Permit for Small Mammal Rehabilitation and enjoys working with orphaned and injured wildlife.

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